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Sweatpants are a sign of defeat

“Sweatpants are a sign of defeat. You lost control of your life so you bought some sweatpants.”-Karl Lagerfeld

If sweatpants are a sign of defeat then style, true style, is a sign that there is some fight left in you.  When I say style I don’t mean fashion trends or our boring attempts to blend into the masses.  No, when I say style I echo Orson Welles definition of the word “Style is knowing who you are, what you want, and not giving a damn.”  IMG_20150913_205941

As far back as I can remember I have been fascinated by a wardrobe’s ability to express who we are without saying a word.  In elementary school we wore uniforms and I spent more time than I am willing to admit tucking my shirt in my pants, making sure my tie lined up with my belt buckle, and shining the nickles in my loafers (maybe I was a bit OCD).  But I knew in a world that aggressively attempts to force conformity, my clothes could say what perhaps I was to afraid to say.  Now that I am older I have grown undeniably comfortable in my own skin which has allowed me to explore my personal style.  On my journey I have been misunderstood, ridiculed, excluded, and mistreated in an attempt to put me in a manageable box. Peers, friends, and family have all sought to define and control my thoughts, actions, and dress at one time or another. But when I put on an ensemble that is inextricably Mykell, I feel like I can take on the world.

My point is this; When you feel bullied by the world or beat down by your circumstance. When your self esteem is low and you feel silenced by the people around you, brush your hair (if you have any) and put on your most favorite ensemble…the clothes that say exactly what you wish you could, and go out. Go to the grocery store. Go to the bank. Go wherever the world is and stand tall.  Let your style say what you cannot.  It may not fix your problems but you will look good on this ride we call life. It’s definitely a confidence builder.

If you are extra daring once you find your style, get a photographer and do a kickass photo shoot.  Any photographer worth their weight will make you feel like the most important, most uniquely beautiful person on the planet.  At the end of the day have fun being YOU.

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